Help with punishment ideas

2017-10-23

I have a relation which has gone on for some months and I've previous punished him with some spanking which has done it nicely previously. However during the last two months he has broken more rules and more frequently than previous and I feel that some new punishments are required to teach him his place.

The infringements which he has broken several times during the last months includes: lying, swearing, masturbating and cumming without permission,

I've thought about corner time or stress position, but what is the best positions and how long should he stay in position? I've also thought about spanking him more but are there any ways to make it worse and how many swats with the riding crop? Mouthsoaping is something which I've looked into but what is the best way to do it with liquid hand soap (it's as safe as possible) and for how long to do the soaping and keeping the soap in mouth, should he be allowed to rinse? Other things I've thought about is some sort of anal punishment with a hairbrush handle or my fingers, but how should I do it, would soap or hot sauce be able to be used as lube for extra punishment? Could hot sauce be used in other ways as punishment, except for eating? Basically give me any ideas you got both for now and for future use.

I know that his main kinks are messy stuff and crossdressing hence why I won't punish him with that.
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julie (guest) 2018-03-18

Hi....you are right in making sure that he does not enjoy the punishment or that defeats the object....i punish my husband in several ways the ultimate being a good hard caning...but i also find enforced squatting to be very effective.....strip him naked and tie his hands behind his back....sit in your favourite chair facing the tv and make him go into a full squat facing you...place your feet on his shoulders using him as a footrest...now you can watch him suffer as you watch tv!!...the extra weight of your legs on his shoulders puts more stress on his legs and stops him falling over when he can no longer bear the pain....you can keep him in this position for as long as you like and add to his humiliation by lowering one foot at a time so that he can kiss and lick your feet...if he really needs to stand then give him one stroke of the cane for each minute standing and then its back into the squat poisition again!!.... you can vary the time depending on the infringement but i would say masturbating or cumming without permission would be the most serious offences and should attract the most severe punishment!!! 

Jya Byrd (guest) 2018-04-08

Your comments on his playing with himself lead to an obvious question about male chasties. There are many available and each has their own strengths and weaknesses.  The best one to start with is a CB6000. It has diferringly sized pieces to allow you to find the perfect fit and it is semi comfortable for long term wear. The cleara plastic version will allow you to see how his cock in enjoy the new home.


 


Pricing is where this gets interesting. On this site


www.lovehoney.com You'll find it for $149.00.


Whereas if you don't mind waiting for three weeks, you can find it for $5.01 including shipping at www.aliexpress.com This site also offers electrical toys that attach to his cock and balls.


 


Before locking his penis up, he'll need to shave. These restraints tend to rip out clumps of pubic hair.


 


While he is wearing it, if he pulls out the two guide pins, the rest will be easily removable negating the desired effect. Just permantently glue those pins in and the problem is solved.


One problem not so easily solved is smell...VERY hard to clean it while he is wearing it and you will notice an unpleasant odor after only one day of continuos wear.


 


Jya


 

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