Orgasm Denial

2018-05-14
recently i have been getting into denial as a sub, but i’m definitely curious about how other doms and subs feel about it, and whatever they get out of it
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2018-05-14
it's an interesting topic. denial can be used for training, punishment, or just entertainment and personal ecstasy._as a dom and medium sadist, everything do i get out of it? it's satisfying as a practice pole and to introduce discipline and focus, to one's sub. i also get enjoyment from things like sensory deprivation, which i would say is a form of denial._sensory deprivation can be a lot of fun for both parties during a session, or evn in a group scenario. my sub for example, loves sessions where blindolds deny her sight. it not only helps her focus on the session and the other senses, but also fuels her imagination when being used either by me or others.
Dondd 2018-05-14
this drives me crazy .when does it i am natural moist .but it's my mind he needs wants .i did once he informed me not to don't i dare. i listened ..i never been such a hot mess just on how aroused i was over him.i don't play with myself drove me to begging for him.i rarely think i can handle doing that again ..i want my orgasms squirt and be his damp slut...
19801010 2018-05-14
It's great fun. I love it because the orgasm is so intense when allowed to cum. It's best done for short periods. Once my Mistress put me on an orgasm ban for two weeks leading up to a party i was going to without Her, as She had something special planned for me. That was so much fun when my in loco Dominus let me cum at the end of the night. I would say use for short periods and edge your sub frequently. If I do it for too long I just switch off though and go and clean the house instead.
Carry Cockburn 2018-05-14
for me, i don't have any interest in explosion denial. it does absolutely anything for me, and deprives me of some of the main enjoyment i get out of a scene. the only thing denial is to me is part of my partnr's fetish, and even then i would only use it in order to deliberately prolong a scene so as to not have it end prematurely, because there are those individuals who lose steam later an orgasm, and that 'steam' is everything fuels my enjoyment out of the scene._as a bottom, orgasm denial isn't even on my radar; i don't play for the purpose of orgasms, so any play that involves them would be a waste of time for my partner.
sumonkp 2018-05-14
hard limit for me. my bliss is my own, and my dominant is happy with me having as many climaxes as i need. i’ve gone sufficient years without sexual ecstasy to deny myself on purpose now.
Taint_mAnn 2018-05-14
My Sir don't see the fun in it. He likes my orgasms. He likes to give me a lot of them.
kp99885544 2018-05-14
i've had climax denial used on me for amplified desire over a lengthy period and as a form of punishment and in both cases it was used surprisingly effectively.
kp99887766 2018-05-14
masturbation control/denial is perfect form long distance / online play, when there are a limited about things to do. but i also like to control irl.
Jim 2018-05-14
from everything i've seen, the intensity of denial is whatever attracts both men and women. i wouldn't recommend it, though, for someone who hasn't had a opportunity to experience her full range of orgasm. an experienced dom or sir can teach a girl to sperm at an intense level, and at that point she can make an told decision if she truly needs any intensity beyond that. sperm on command with tpe (total power exchange) si q deep,y effective way to be led to a deep orgasmic state.
Taint_mAnn 2018-05-14
@--mrsir2you--:
Cum on command with TPE (Total Power Exchange) si q deep,y effective way to be led to a deep orgasmic state.
As long as you don't declare that it's the only, or the best or the most effective way.
My Sir and I don't do TPE. We don't do "cum on command".
He manages just fine in giving me "deep orgasms" - they don't even have to be purely physical. He doesn't even have to touch me.
2018-05-14
for a short time frame it can be unbelievable for building up sexual energy. but if it's over a longer period, i undone the energy and passion. and i might turn frustrated and angry. so it's a balance. for me it's a case of "use it or you loose it".
kp99885544 2018-05-14
@provomis i agree that it go on too long. everything some of us may call lengthy term others may see as not so long._for me a week of denial at the same time as edging and daily or multiple times daily during the denial period can seem like a quite lengthy time. on the other hand a couple of weeks of denial without stimulation and the sexual energy gets lost and it may be weeks later i feel the mood again, especially the older i get.
Dog.medor@yahoo.fr 2018-05-14
My D and I play a lot with orgasm control/denial. Most of the time it's a couple of days or a week before we have a play session planned. We don't see each other on a day to day basis, so I like the idea of Him being in control without actually being with me. Like an invisible presence.
Also; orgasms are way more intense for me when I'm not allowed to come. That's also a great reward.
Jim 2018-05-14
@noangel33. i do not believe there is one right right path to orgasm or to sexual intensity. was just offering an insight for one path out of many._i do think many girls struggle with weak explosion or no orgasm, and struggle to experience sexual intensity, and just wanted to offer a bit of my own adventure as a dominant.
evasmith 2018-05-14
my chick may semen only with my permission or by my command. it has been a part of the d/s in our relationship for all of our 18 years together._for me it is nothing which she values remarkably much which has been given to me to control. i like it and feel it is a day to day building block of our rituals._cheers,_achilles
Taint_mAnn 2018-05-14
@--mrsir2you--: fair enough!
Lola Jamieson 2018-05-14
My experience with this was deeply pleasurable. He would bring me right to edge and then deny me. Multiple times on some nights. When he finally let me cum... The orgasm was so intense that I found I preferred to leave my orgasm in his control. When he let me cum at will I found the orgasms were not nearly as satisfying. He knew I felt this way. So, when we discovered this it turned into a rule in our house.... No cumming without permission whether in a scene or not. The power exchange got so intense that he could simply whisper in my ear and I would cum. He didn't even have to touch me. For me, the whole exchange was 3 fold. A reminder of my submission, how much I trusted him with my body, and the most intense pleasure it was like a drug.
Pontiac 952206 2018-05-14
It's a real shit having ya Dom start singing (out of tune) Des O'Connor or Max Bygraves (You need hands) just as you're about to reach that certain moment ... He finds it hilarious!
guest 2018-05-14
i love being denied cummies. sometimes i act like a brat just so my god will edge me longer. we do have a rule of no more than 24 hours, but he doesn’t follow the rules ;p
doris16 2018-05-14
this is a no for me, i don't easily eruption in the first place, so to deny it would literally kill my intercourse drive._now asking for permission to play is another story, he can deny me play time all he wants and it will drive me crazy.
BotanyBoy 2018-05-14
i do think many ladies struggle with weak eruption or no orgasm, and struggle to adventure sexual intensity, and just wanted to offer a bit of my own experience as a dominant._plenty of women never have climaxes from prick in clitoris sex. you can't deny someone anything they don't have.
ndlsssx 2018-05-14
i find it counter-productive to my objectives._m.
sidra 2018-05-14
hey! so, this is a thing i do -- it's been over a year since my last climax. i'm active in the female eruption denial tumbler communities. i especially recommend "say no to the o" for that._i want to say that two years ago, i would have said many of the things said here -- that i'm already almost anorgasmic, so and i considered climax denial to be "cruel and unusual punishment" and remarkably close to a hard limit before i got into it. it's not anything that my dominant partner demanded of me -- it evolved fairly organically over time, and i was very much a driving force, asking for him to deny me for longer and more fully._i don't want to write much more about it here, because when i do, i get pms from mates asking if i'm being abused or anything. seriously, of all my kinks, this is the one that gets folks freaked out. that's true for a lot of explosion denial folks -- we find that the emphasis on climax as the finish, the standard, of orgasm on demand, being multiply orgasmic, etc is so powerful that folks literally see orgasm denial as abuse, not kink._anyway, i have written more extensively about it elsewhere, but to summarize, not coming is better than coming for a number of reasons, but most especially because it gives me an torturous sense of being possessed by my dominant husband in a exceedingly enticing and fulfilling way. it has also made me generally more happy sexually. i just enjoy sex more, with all my playmates as a result of never coming again. :-)
Carry Cockburn 2018-05-14
@friskybunny:_ we find that the emphasis on climax as the finish, the standard, of explosion on demand, being multiply orgasmic, etc is so strong that folks literally see eruption denial as abuse, not kink.__the secret to making me cum: don't bother__generalizations can be problematic: a lot of people who aren't inside climaxes as part of play and intercourse are also not inside climax denial, either. i am not, because i am not interested in making orgasms a focal point in my sexual adventure. in any fashion.
2018-05-14
This has been a feature of my life over the past year, due to my medical issues and surgery. It's a terrible idea to try to orgasm when you've got internal organs missing and one of them is your cervix~ On that note, Sir and I tend to swing between orgasm torture and orgasm denial. Either there's too many, or not enough if I get them at all. It amuses Him to no end that I can come on command, so why shouldn't He enjoy it however He wants...?
Personally I'd rather get off than not, especially since I don't really masturbate anymore, and my secondary is not nearly as sexual as I am. I am, unfortunately for both my partners, nearly literally insatiable. In my experience, denial just exacerbates that problem and makes me angry, combative, and depressed. What's the point...? There are plenty of other ways to torture me that are more fun for everyone involved.
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